the 4 things holding you back from your dream biz + life! // STRATEGY, BRANDING, + WEB DESIGN BY XXOBRI.COM
I have this friend... let's call her Sally. Sally had several ideas, trainings, and projects sitting on her hard drive. Each project was “almost” ready. She would go to all of the networking conferences and attend online webinars. She would tell others about her projects and she even had several people interested in them. But a year later, she was still in the exact same place. She never launched anything. Not ever REALLY showing up.
Can you relate? Are you a "Sally"?
You’re an awesome dreamer, creator, and doer. But you’re still not putting yourself out there + showing up in the way you dream of.
You’re hiding your best work from the world and it’s time for a change. It's time to start REALLY showing up! But first, you first have to understand what’s been holding you back.
You're stuck because--
Fear You’re Not Ready
You tell yourself that you’ll do it soon. You just have to learn a little bit more. Maybe you tell yourself you need to take a course on Facebook ads before you can launch. Maybe you believe that you need to have a shiny website with all the bells and whistles before you can share your product with the world.
But most people never really feel ‘ready’. You have to accept that there are some things you can only learn from hands-on experience and that type of experience comes from just doing it!
Fear You’ll Be Rejected
People will be giving you feedback, either with their checkbooks or their words. Some will even give you both. But don’t fear this feedback. It will allow you to fine-tune and create more content and connections your tribe will benefit from.
Fear You’re Not Good Enough
Insecurities can destroy your business if you let them. What you have to understand is you’ll never become an expert. Even the smartest, most educated #bizbabe is still learning new things. There’s always another rung you can climb on the success ladder.
But in the meantime, it’s not fun to hold back your best material from your tribe. They want your expertise and your knowledge. What’s more, they want to pay you for this knowledge so their lives can be better! Don’t deny them this or they’ll look elsewhere for a business owner that’s willing to launch (even if their stuff isn’t as good as yours).
Fear You’ll Be Successful
Some people fear success more than they fear failure. Success means having to confront your self-limiting beliefs about money and business. It means you’ll have to deem yourself worthy of making money.
While failure isn’t as comfortable as success, it’s familiar. That’s why so many smart #bizbabes don’t take action. Success means facing the unknown. You need to learn how to embrace the unknown in your business and your life. Otherwise, you’ll stay stuck just like Jana. You don’t want that for your business.
Although putting yourself out there feels scary, this is what you’re here for!
It’s why you created your business – so you could share your work with a community that’s eager to see it. So, get over yourself and show up already!